Мои мурчащие записки

[Вэн Глин]

людям со мной неинтересно.

люди сами сказали Вам об этом?

[А.М.]

У меня от этого начинается грусть и одиночество, и попытки понять, что же со мной не так, что людям со мной неинтересно.

Perfect?

[Пушистая няшечка2]

люди сами сказали Вам об этом?

В лицо, понятно, никто такого не скажет, но я не знаю, чем это еще объяснить... Ну не может же человек быть так сильно занят, чтобы не найти 5 минут в день, а?

[Пушистая няшечка2]

Perfect?

You said perfect! I'd say a total failure.

[Вэн Глин]

Ну не может же человек быть так сильно занят, чтобы не найти 5 минут в день, а?

какой такой человек?

[Пушистая няшечка2]

какой такой человек?

Любой!

[Вэн Глин]

какой такой человек?

Любой!

Oh, really?

[Пушистая няшечка2]

Oh, really?

Looks like somebody or something keeps me from writing here in russian.
Okay. Imagine an Abstract Forum Member. Just a guy who suddenly took interest in me. He comes here and says:

- Hi, Nyashechka, what an interesting blog!
- Really?
- Yes, sure! Write here everything you consider necessary! The more the better!

I write here something, but no reaction. One, two, three days pass. A week. Two weeks. No response. Nothing.

And also, imagine an Abstract American Guy. We get acquainted in the net and start to write long letters to each other. We have thousands topics to discuss. We share the same interests. "Write any time you like. You're so nice to talk to." That's what he says.
And when I suggest that we try speaking: "Oh, I'm terribly busy, I can't".

How would you explain this kind of behavior? Besides 'me being boring', I have absolutely no idea.

[Вэн Глин]

I have absolutely no idea.

Fine! This is real Zamyatkin method also! Every day you're writing anything here. You're writing nonstop.You're writing without any understanding and you're not asking why. You're writing and writing. Long, long time... A year... or maybe less...
Then reaction is. Without a doubt, eh... So it is written in The Book.

[Пушистая няшечка2]

Every day you're writing anything here. You're writing nonstop.You're writing without any understanding and you're not asking why. You're writing and writing. Long, long time...

Haha, I just got it that all people write blogs in this kinda way. So that must be normal. On the other hand, no feedback makes me feel lonely. Without any hope to receive feedback I wouldn't write at all.

So it is written in The Book.

So what does The Book say about other people's attitude to me? Will it change?

[А.М.]

You said perfect! I'd say a total failure.

This is not "total failure". This is usual thing. When I said "perfect" I have meant you want the all stuff must be either perfect or must not be at all.

[Вэн Глин]

what does The Book say about other people's attitude to me? Will it change?

The Book says that you can't make people to pay attention to you.
But you can do it to them.

[Пушистая няшечка2]

This is not "total failure". This is usual thing. When I said "perfect" I have meant you want the all stuff must be either perfect or must not be at all.

I wouldn't say this problem is about perfectionism, just about feeling lonely and abandoned. Never mind.

The Book says that you can't make people to pay attention to you.
But you can do it to them.

Oh. Maybe I misunderstood something, but I disagree. Just an example: Hollywood superstars certainly know the secret of attracting everyone's attention! And they pay no attention to their fans simply because there are so many of them.

[Вэн Глин]

Oh. Maybe I misunderstood something,

y-e-es, it seems to be true

[Пушистая няшечка2]

y-e-es, it seems to be true

What did I miss?
Do famous people pay attention to people around before becoming famous?
What should I do if I pay attention to people and they pay me with no attention?